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COULD I BE PREGNANT???
What's a dental dam
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I have symptoms after oral sex. I don't know what
to do and can't turn to anyone. Please help.
Is it ok, to have an annual pap smear, like a day
or so after your menstrual period?
I am using birth control pills and antibiotics and
used EC after unprotected sex. How safe am I?
Emma Goldman once refused an operation for a
condition related to her fertility. What was it?
Can
I get a pap smear at school?
Can I get pregnant after having an abortion?
Is
it normal to miss a period while on Depo Provera?
What
are the signs of an ectopic pregnancy?
Does the pill affect future fertility?
I had sex between my last pack of pills and
reordering new pills. Could I be pregnant and when should I start the
new pack?
How were abortions done a long time ago?
I need an
abortion and don't know where to get it done. Please help.
I got the birth
control shot when I wasn't on my period. Will it still work?
I got treated for Chlamydia but then reused my
towel and shorts. Should I get treated again?
I had my IUD removed and started pills that day.
Do I need a backup method?
What does it mean to have very very light bleeding
3 days after my period ended?
Does going to the bathroom after sex reduce my
chances of getting pregnant?
I have been seeing my periods for two months now!
What should I do to stop it?
If I am on the depo shot, can pre ejaculation from
a fertile male get me pregnant?
I’ve been on pills for 3 years. Should I take
breaks after every few years?
Can you take a certain amount of Vitamin C to make
sure the egg doesn’t fertilize?
When it's time for my period I get the usual
headache and cramps, but no period just spotting. What could cause
this?
What is
this clear discharge with red spots? Is it an irregular period or what?
Is
it possible to have sex with a tampon in? Can it get pushed too far up?
The condom broke during sex on my last pill –
could I be pregnant?
Can you still fall pregnant if you are on the
week of pills that comes right before your period?
When
should I get an STI test?
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“I’m 13, I haven't
had sex but I have had oral sex, I have noticed little white blisters
and when something’s inserted into my vagina it really burns, I really
don't know what do to, I can't turn to anyone because I’m scared of what
they'll say or think. Please help.”
-Anonymous, Harthill, Lanarkshire
Since we cannot diagnose anything over the internet, we would encourage
you to be seen by a medical professional so you can be properly
diagnosed and treated for these symptoms. The symptoms you are
experiencing may or may not be sexually transmitted, but it is always
important to use protection (ie
condoms,
dental dams) when you have sexual contact, oral, vaginal, or anal.
Being open with your practitioner about your sexual history will help
him/her make an accurate diagnosis. To find a clinic near you, you
could try searching in the phonebook or online for "gynecology" or
"family planning." Clinics in your area should be able to answer any
questions you have regarding your symptoms as well confidentiality
concerns.
-Emma
“Is
it ok, to have an annual pap smear, like a day or so after your
menstrual period?”
-Tina, Minneapolis, MN
It is best to have a pap smear at a point
in your cycle when you are not bleeding. In a pap smear, sample blood
cells can obscure cervical cells and make the test difficult for the lab
technician to read.
-Emma
“I
had unprotected sex on Friday but my boyfriend didn’t cum in me. I have
been taking amoxicillin with my birth control pills. Since then I had
unprotected sex on Sunday and this time he came in me, I got the
emergency pill on Monday. What are the chances of me being pregnant?”
-Samantha
From what you’ve told me, I’m not sure if I’m clear on whether or not
you are on birth control pills or not. Birth control pills are highly
effective at protecting against pregnancy, whether or not a guy cums in
you, so you would be having relatively protected sex if you are on
pills. We always recommend condoms to protects against sexually
transmitted infections (plus, they add another method of protection
against pregnancy).
There are things that can decrease the effectiveness of birth control
pills, and antibiotics are included in that list. Amoxicillin is an
antibiotic and antibiotics can indeed decrease the effectiveness of your
pills – we tell clients here that if they are taking antibiotics, to use
a backup method like condoms for the duration of the antibiotics and a
full 7 days afterwards. Just to be safe.
The reason for this is because the antibiotics can cause the pills to be
less effective, which means that you could ovulate, and thus you can
become pregnant if you have unprotected sex. It is OK to have sex while
on antibiotics as long as you use condoms and use them correctly.
If you had sex when you weren’t on the pill,
emergency contraception (EC) is your second chance at birth control
when used asap and within 5 days of unprotected sex. We can’t tell you
the chances of being pregnant – only that it’s lower the sooner you take
EC after unprotected sex. A pregnancy test should be accurate within
about 10 days of a sexual encounter.
-Emma
“RE: Emma Goldman
I am reading her (Emma Goldman's) autobiography as part of my graduate
study. She reports excruciating pain in her spine, legs, abdomen and
head during menses. She also reports that she was examined by a medical
doctor who informed her that she could not conceive unless she had an
operation. Emma refused the operation. What was Emma's condition?
Dysmenorrhea... but what about the infertility? I appreciate anything
you can tell me. Thanks.”
-Diane, PA
Without other information, it would not be prudent to guess a
diagnosis. I would suggest you ask this question of the Emma Goldman
Papers, an archive of her life and writings housed at the University of
California at Berkley. They can be reached at:
http://sunsite.berkeley.edu/Goldman/ or emma(AT)berkeley.edu
(510) 642-4708
These folks are the premiere authority on Emma Goldman.
-Emma
“Are school nurses able to
give Pap smears?”
-Kaye, OK
It's great that you're thinking about this important test. Pap smears
involve collecting a small sample of cells from your cervix. This
preparation is then sent to a laboratory and examined for cancerous or
pre-cancerous cells.
Student health clinics at universities and colleges sometimes offer pap
smears. Most high school/junior high/elementary school nurses in the US
do not provide reproductive health care. You can certainly ask the
nurse at your school whether that service is provided. If not, s/he
should be able to give you a list of health clinics in your area where
you can get a Pap smear.
-Emma
“Can I be pregnant if I had
sex three days after having an abortion? Can I still use emergency
contraception?”
-Dee, South Africa
First things first. It is important not to place anything inside your
vagina for at least two weeks after an abortion. Doing so may put you
at risk for a uterine infection, as your body has not yet had a chance
to completely heal from the procedure. If you have any questions about
your aftercare and how to prevent complications like infection, do
contact the provider who performed your abortion.
Secondly, while it is not likely that your body has regained its ability
to conceive, there is a small chance that you may have ovulated. If you
ovulated, then yes, you can get pregnant if you had unprotected sex.
Lastly- emergency contraception pills are a second chance at birth
control if you had unprotected sex and you can read more about it
here. Since you are not in the U.S., I don’t know what emergency
contraception methods are available to you and I would recommend you
speak to the provider that performed your abortion for advice. In
general, emergency contraception pills can help prevent a pregnancy if a
woman is not already pregnant and takes the pills within 5 days of
unprotected sex. EC is not as effective as choosing a
birth control method
that you can use accurately and consistently.
-Emma
“I got my first depo
shot a week before I was supposed to get my period, but it did not come.
Is this normal?”
-Karen, MN
Some women have lighter periods or no periods while using Depo Provera,
and it is normal. It is VERY common for women to have irregular
bleeding when first starting on Depo. You can read more about Depo
Provera
here, and we encourage you to contact the clinic/provider who gave
you the shot if you have any specific questions about your body’s
reaction to Depo.
-Emma
“What are the signs of an ectopic
pregnancy?”
-Lori
An ectopic pregnancy occurs when the fertilized egg implants itself
somewhere other than inside the uterus. Usually it happens inside one
of the Fallopian tubes, which connect the uterus and ovaries.
Implantation can also take place in the cervix, ovary or abdomen.
While the signs may vary between women, there is usually pain in the
lower abdomen. If you have had a positive pregnancy test and are having
abdominal pain, cramping, or vaginal bleeding, it would be a good idea
to check for an ectopic pregnancy. An ultrasound must be performed to
know whether implantation has occurred outside the uterus.
-Emma
”If I'm on the Pill for more than
five years straight, will that affect my future fertility?”
-Lori , IL
More than half of women who stop taking the pill ovulate during their
next cycle. A few women regain their fertility a few months after
stopping the pill. However, there is no evidence that long term use of
oral contraceptives will keep you from getting pregnant in the future if
you want to.
-Emma
”I took my
last pill in the pack on the last day of my period. I’m a Sunday
starter and I forgot to reorder my pills. I will receive them
Thursday but I had sex the Sunday after my last pill and won't be
taking any for three days until I gat my refill. My boyfriend came a
little inside me, is there a possibility of being pregnant, and if
so should I start the new packet when I get it Thursday?”
-M., Youngstown
Birth control pills,
when taken correctly, offer effective protection against pregnancy
through to the last pill and only continue being effective when you
keep that hormone level constant by taking pills correctly and
starting packs on time.
If I am understanding correctly, you took your last pill as
scheduled, had a week with no
pills, and had sex the Sunday after your last pill and end of your
period. If this is the case -- since
you had sex after finishing your last pack and before starting a new
one, there is a chance you are pregnant.
Plan B, or
emergency contraception, can be taken up to five days
after unprotected sex to help prevent pregnancy. You can wait ten
days after unprotected sex to take a high-sensitivity pregnancy test
(the ones at the drugstore).
In terms of when to begin your new pack of pills, you have several
options. Since you've missed a few days of pills you could start
the new pack as soon as it arrives and use a back up method like
condoms for the first two weeks. The other option is to skip your
pills this month (while using a backup method), wait for your
period, and begin your new pack of pills the Sunday after your
bleeding starts. If you go with the second option you would only
need to use a back up method of birth control for the first week
when you are starting the new pack of pills.
-Emma
"How were
abortions done a long time ago?"
-Jatia, Detroit, MI
Abortions have occurred in various forms and in many cultures
throughout history dating earlier than 2000 B.C. They have included
such forms as concoctions of poisonous herbs, prescribed methods of
certain physical activity, and ancient tools that resembled modern
surgical instruments. Between the 1880's and 1973 (when abortion was
legalized by Roe v. Wade) unsafe "back alley" abortions involved the
use of such items as knitting needles, wire coat hangers, and
poisons. Unsafe, botched, and dangerous procedures led to a
significant number of deaths or severe health consequences for
women. The coat hanger became a symbol of "never again" in early
activism for the right to abortion, as it represented a dark time
when women were driven to desperate measures and risked their lives
to end a pregnancy.
Today, modern medical facilities, tools, methods, and laws help
ensure that women have access to safe and legal abortions. However,
unsafe abortions are still being performed both internationally and
in the U.S. and women continue to die or suffer permanent injury
from unsafe and unsanitary procedures. Challenges that continue to
restrict a woman's access to abortion include stigma surrounding the
choice of abortion and pressures from anti-choice activists to
limit/deny access.
You can read more about the history of abortion here
<http://www.feminist.com/resources/ourbodies/abortion.html> and
here
<http://www.prochoice.org/about_abortion/history_abortion.html>.
Get involved in public action here
<http://emmagoldman.com/services/abortion/action.htm>.
"Please help me Emma, I
am 20 and I need to have an abortion. I can't let my family know, I'm 5
weeks pregnant please help me, how many days does it take to have an
abortion? Where do I go to get it done? I can’t go to my gp cause he is
a family doc, please help."
-Shaz,
London, UK
Since we are in the U.S., we could not really tell you about clinics and
how they run in London.
The National Abortion Federation (NAF) recommends
Marie Stopes
International as an abortion provider in the UK.
To locate other clinics, you can try a websearch for "London abortion." Look for clinics that offer abortion as
an option. Do avoid websites and places that mention "crisis pregnancy
center" as these are centers that often have anti-abortion propaganda.
You can also look in your local phonebook - in the states, abortion
providers are generally listed under categories of "Abortion-Clinics" or
"Abortion-Providers." If you call a clinic, ask if they offer abortions.
Some women like to call more than one clinic to compare things like
prices, procedures, scheduling times, options for support people,
confidentiality, level of care and advocacy. Sometimes, women will go
further than the closest clinic to find a provider that meets their
needs the best.
For women living in the U.S., you can look up providers on the National
Abortion Federation website
here, or call
1-800-772-9100 for information about
abortion and referrals to providers. Women living outside the U.S. can
still call this number, but it may or may not be a toll-free call (you
can always use a calling card).
-Emma
"I recently have
gotten the birth control shot and had sex with my boyfriend 2 weeks
later but when I got the shot it wasn’t when I was on my period. I’ve
looked around online and most information said that you had to be on
your 5th day of your period. Could not being on my period mean the shot
won't work? Should I be worried about getting pregnant?"
-Sabrina,
Santa Rosa, CA
It is true the manufacturer of Depo reports
that it is effective immediately if received within the first five days
of your period. If you receive your injection outside of that window we
would recommend using a backup method of birth control for the first two
weeks.
-Emma
"I got
treated for Chlamydia on a Thursday and then Thursday night I used the
same towel and wore the same shorts I had been wearing prior to being
treated, should I get treated again or what??"
-Emily,
Rockford, IL
To my knowledge Chlamydia can only be
transmitted through bodily fluids and sexual contact. (Oral, anal and
vaginal) Be sure to complete your treatment and abstain from sexual
contact for the duration of that treatment. (Usually 7 days)
-Emma
“I had my IUD (Mirena)
removed and started taking Necon birth control pills the same day.
Do I need to use a backup method and if so for how long? I do not
know when my last period was, because I have been having bleeding for 3
months since my baby was born.”
-Sarah,
Amsterdam, NY
When starting a hormonal method of birth control out side of your normal
menstrual cycle I would recommend using backup for two weeks. Also, you
should always use a backup method of birth control when having
breakthrough bleeding and for seven days following.
-Emma
“I have been on
birth control pills for 2 years now. I started my period on a Sunday,
and stopped on that Thursday. 3 days later I noticed very very light
bleeding and don't know what this means? could this mean I’m pregnant?”
-Tiffany,
Peublo, CO
If you are sexually active there is always a chance of being pregnant. I
recommend doing a pregnancy test. If this continues see your physician.
-Emma
“My husband and I
are trying to get pregnant. After sex I use the bathroom and
relieve myself. Does that reduce my chances of getting pregnant?”
-Stephanie,
Marrero, Louisiana
We are not a fertility clinic. I can say that sperm can live up to 3-5
days in the vagina. so the longer it is in the vagina the higher your
chances of becoming pregnant. Consult with a fertility clinic/provider
for advice on how to increase your chances of pregnancy.
-Emma
“I have been seeing my periods for two months now! In august it came for
4 weeks my doctor put on birth control it stopped for a week and started
again and I am currently going on my third week for this month. What
should I do to stop it? write back ASAP. THANKS.”
-Nadya,
Markham, Ontario
I would advise you to use a backup method of birth control whenever you
are having breakthrough bleeding and for seven days following. Also you
should contact the prescribing physician regarding this matter.
-Emma
“If I am on the depo
shot, and a man is too fertile, can his pre ejaculation get me
pregnant?”
-Brandy,
Riverside, CA
Depo is a very effective form of birth control but it does have a
failure rate of around 1%. The difference between pre ejaculation and
ejaculation should not make a difference in Depo’s effectiveness.
-Emma
“I've
been on the Pill for three years. I would like to know if it is
recommended to take breaks after every few years.”
-Auste,
London, UK
There are currently no recommendations to stop birth control pills every
few years.
-Emma
“Is it true that u can
take a certain amount of vitamin c to make sure the egg doesn’t
fertilize?”
-Christy,
Manalapan, NJ
Vitamin C is not recommended as a form of birth control.
-Emma
“I used various
methods of birth control for 12 years (since my son was born). I
recently stopped using birth control and my periods have all but
stopped. Actually, when it's time for my period I get the usual
headache and cramps, but no period just spotting. What could cause
this?”
-DeeDee,
Norfolk, VA
Many things can cause differences in your menstrual cycle. We cannot
diagnose over the Internet, so I recommend you call you local health
care provider to discuss your symptoms.
-Emma
"I am supposed to be having my
period right now, but instead I am getting a clear discharge that
sometimes has red spots in it.
When I told a girlfriend of mine, she went with me to the health clinic
on campus for an ept just in case, but it was negative.
Is this possibly just an irregular period or is there something more
that I should be concerned about?"
-Anonymous, Virginia
It's good that you went to the campus health clinic for a pregnancy test
based on the symptoms you're having. The test you took was probably a
high sensitivity test, which means it could read positive within
approximately ten days of conception. Since the test was negative you
should continue monitoring your symptoms and take a second pregnancy
test in about a week, preferably with your first morning urine to make
sure the test was accurate. Assuming you are not pregnant, you should
consult a practitioner if you miss another period.
-Emma
"Is it possible to have sex with a
tampon in? Is it a possibility that a tampon can be pushed too far up?"
-Gina, San Francisco, CA
It is physically
possible to have sex with a tampon in, however, it really should be
removed before sex since leaving a tampon in can be painful and make the
tampon difficult to remove later. If you think you have had sex with a
tampon in, it probably got pushed to the back of the vagina near your
cervix. Since tampons should not be left in place for longer than about
8 hours, you should see a practitioner if you are unable to remove it
yourself.
-Emma
"I have been on birth
control for almost two years. I took the last Saturday pill and did not
get my refills until wed the following week. My doctor told me to double
up until Friday so I could catch up. The problem is that I had sex on
Saturday after taking my regular dose, and the condom broke, is there a
chance I could be pregnant?"
-Valerie, CA
If you had sex on the day that you took your last pill (assuming you
took pills regularly during that cycle, same time and every day), you
were still protected under that dose.
If you had sex on the day after or any other day in which you were
missing pills or catching up on pills, you would not be protected and
should consider taking
emergency contraception (“EC”/”Plan B”/”morning-after pill”) within
five days of that "unprotected" encounter to help prevent pregnancy.
When you are doubling
up on birth control pills you should use a back up method (like condoms)
while you’re doubling up and for seven days after you have caught up.
-Emma
"Can you still fall pregnant
if you are on the white-coulored part of the birth-control pills (and
your period is about to come)?"
-Cindy, Chicago, IL
If you have taken your
pills correctly, i.e. every day at the same time, there is a very small
chance that you could become pregnant. Birth control pills are usually
between 98% and 99% effective. Since no birth control method is 100%
effective, you should take a pregnancy test if you miss your period.
Read
this to find out how to make sure you are taking pills correctly.
-Emma
"A year ago I had unprotected sex and I
got tested less than a week later. I was negative but just recently my
friend told me it can take two weeks for the infection to be detected.
On top of this I found out the other day that the guy did actually have
chlamydia. Is there a high chance I am at risk and what could this
possibly mean for my fertility if it has been a year> I am going to get
tested again before you suggest it."
-Jennifer, Britain
The time frame for
testing for sexually transmitted infections varies depending on which
tests you have done. For Chlamydia and Gonorrhea to be detected on a
test it needs to be at least three weeks from any possible exposure to
the infections. For all other tests such as HIV, syphilis, or hepatitis
you need to wait at least three months from possible exposure to be
tested. The practitioner you see for your testing should be able to
give you a good idea whether you have been exposed to Chlamydia and
what, if any, effects it has had.
-Emma

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